obey.

"The code says, 'Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife'- and the result? Reluctant chastity, adultery, jealousy, bitter family fights, blows and sometimes murder, broken homes and twisted children...and furtive, dirty little passes at country club dances and the like, degrading both man and woman whether consummated or not."

Robert A. Heinlan
Stranger in a Strange Land